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overthinking?

Well,My husband calls me a professional overthinker imagining fake scenarios and dwelling all the time.I need to correct him.I don't overthink,infact I think with all possible scenarios.
Why any harm? we don't have to pay for anything we think right? or may be I have topper syndrome who even tries to ace the way they think.I am someone who believes, If your thinking process is not deep enough it is gonna be such loss of time and infact the energy.If all questions have  satisfactory answers ready for them why to even frame such questions? don't we evolve by creating complex stuffs? it involves a lot brainstorming and thinking sessions.Some men do say that they like this overthinking habbit of women.As I said "some" not really all.So may be my husband is not in that "some" category and he is really not like all other common men.He is not extraordinary as well.That means my husband is abnormal.Oh No! Crap!.What did my life become?
Hehe,this instance above is called overthinking precisely.I do not think like this for sure😃.

Sometimes you observe the minute details.Yet sometimes we tend to be extra careful,infact a defensive mechanism our brain plays. Some tend to be super prepared! Some other individuals are insecure.These all make a person to think sometimes in a stupid way eventhough their intention is genuine.You know,fear and brain do not have any boundaries.You can't suppress and make them fit into our convenience.

Some unexpected cases rather than the usual flowery way life has been happening to everyone even since ancient times.Who overthought and predicted something bad may happen? If someone had really overthought and was super cautious, we would have not witnessed greatest tragedy works and people like Shakespeare would have been one more neighbour uncle who stayed abroad and thoughts like he must have made some heavy money.

We cannot change a person because we really cannot predict the way their brain works.If you start thinking what an other person thinks,then you feel like you are overthinking 👀.
So honey, do not label anyone as an overthinker!
Only Lucky ones can be overthinkers as they have got plenty of leisure time having no work to do and may be some generational wealth.
~Nav🌻

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