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Coping up.

Does a picture speak everything? are we not picturising some relationships based on how much published and have gotten limelight?We tend to suspect the couple are not happy if they do not share anything much together and vice versa.Again,who will share the dull moments on a public platform as everyone wishes to fake their lives together.
It's really hard to be someone's permenent roommate and the fact we forget it in the heat of the youth,or in the middle of love.But what hits hard is reality.Your permanent roommate's each and every action irritates you and bothers you.But the society will not let you change the room that easily.Out of all these parenthood is different level which gets added up.
It's always the mums who sacrifice everything.The freedom,carrier and needs everything are put at a cost.We see all the promises getting broken when this chapter sneeks in.The amount of emotional downfall could be the greatest loophole of your marriage life.I know it's pretty normal when Indian dads find  salvation in running away from a few responsibilities and yet showing off in front of the people how their kid got their name.I mean this is how things have been right? and society expects women to cope up with everyone and with everything.
Does motherhood demand all these? Will my child be happy by seeing all what his mom has done?
Prolly not.
It's not a complaint,but a harsh truth.Even my dad was the same but since he is aged now ,he seems to be more matured and the fact that he is "my" dad.But he was the same person who was lazy enough to help my mom.
Technology has evolved.But the society isn't.
We work outside and see most of the men are in senior positions.Its due to a fact that motherhood demanded many women to sacrifice their jobs.
A child would always love to see his/her mom Happy.
But a dad may get insecure here as well.
When I was married , I thought I will break the rules.
But guess what as usual I am broke.
Everyone says cope up Nav,cope up!
You are also one more in flock🙂

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